Guide+to+Relationships

=Guide to Keeping and Maintaining Good Relationships=

Hi, I’m Lucas from 2010 class. Here, I will give you some suggestions personally to help you to spend your first year in university. As for the part of adjusting to the new environment and living here, in my opinion, you should be patient to everyone and everything. Don’t complain about the environment and the school because it can change nothing but make you more angry. What you should do is to be kind and helpful to people; As for the part of misunderstanding, I want to say something to you. Sometimes, you want to do something and people will watch you and say something untrue about it. Actually, I cannot deal with it by myself, but I just want to tell you that you should just do what you think are right, even through your good friends misunderstand you like others too. If you do nothing wrong and you should not blame yourself. Lucus.He

You should know the differences between people are sure, so you need not to force everyone to agree with you completely. First of all, be a polite person and keep smile if you were not very down, then, take care of your new friends as often as possible, last, you should plan a your own time table and follow them. About the second one you can add your class’s QQ and keep touch with your new classmates. The last one you should do because it can make you have more spare time to communication, for example, go to the picnic, KTV, hot pat and so on. -Janefan


 * Hello, students! Welcome to TUST, I am so pleased to makes some advice for you for your coming university life.**


 * I know you may get some troubles after a few days enjoying your new life. At first, you may find your roommates are not easily to get along with, or the food in canteen cannot satisfy you, because it isn’t exactly what you parents make and just not suit for you.**


 * However, you must overcome them, because you need to spend next four years there. Here is some advice for you, if someone does something annoying, ignoring it and you will feel at ease and leading a relaxing life. In addition, when missing your parents, you can call your parents and tell them to send you some special food from your hometown.---Lizzy Yi**

==As far as I am concerned, it is a very important ability to be able to adapt to a new environment. We cannot expect that everything to develop in the way we hope it is. We should learn to accept the surroundings before we have the ability to change it (in fact, I gradually realize that as part of a team, one could change the surroundings without realizing it). In my opinion, the reason why most of conflicts occurred is that we all tend to be self-centered. While being as home, it might not a big problem as our relatives would tolerate us. However, there is no difference between you and your roommates or classmates. You should find the way to gain your goals but not expecting that the others would indulge you. Another big change is that you would not have so many spaces as you had as you are living in a dormitory. I do not know what you think, but for me, I am the kind of girl that I have to be able to stay alone sometimes to calm down while I get angry or upset. If you are the same kind of person as I am, I suggest you to go to the playground and play some sports rather than go back to the dormitory as it might let you become more upset. The time to go to sleep is always a big problem in collage as different people have different customs about their lives. I think it is a good idea to have a small discussion and make a rule about it.==

Erin Ma
When you go to the university firstly, maybe you will far away from your hometown and anything you are familiar with. You have to face something new or even strange for you. Homesick and loneliness may upset you. However, you can get out of the dilemma by yourself. As a freshman, the tutor is useful for you. You can ask anything you don’t know, he can help you to get accustomed to university live quickly. Secret

Hello! Welcome to Tianjin University of Science & Technology. My advice is about the dormitory. The dormitory is your home at the university, where you can have a rest, talk with you roommates and surf the Internet. There, you will in your new circumstance and you must adapt to it. Then you should get along well with your roommates, who can help you when you have any trouble and accompany you when you are lonely. In the dormitory, you can surf the Internet to communicate with your friends .Also, you can watch movies with your roommates. Dormitory is also a good place for studying because everyone has a desk, where you can sit to study. Finally, everyone in your dormitory should take turns to do the cleaning. I hope you will enjoy your college life.
 * Dormitory **

**Lucky Pei**


 * Yeah ! Do it best ,you should have a kind heart. You should love your teachers classmates new friends and your school. Specially your collage. Do something that you think useful hardwork. Enjoy your life. **
 * Use cellphone. Take a call to your family one time a week at least. My old friends had a little change. But ,they always miss me. As a man, you should do everything like man. I think you got it. Take care of yourself.-big Andy **

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 * Maybe you are the first time to live alone without your parents. And you may feel exciting, curious about everything, and perhaps a bit more nervous. If you feel alone make some calls to your friend or parents every day. After talking to them, you will feel better. Trust me time can handle everything, when you go through the first few weeks, everything will be all alright. Chloe **

HI, I ‘m bella from 2010 class. I have some suggestions to show you .May be, they can help you improve English. Watching more English movies with English titles, it’s a good way to help you know foreign cultures and languages. You should join English corner at TAIDA library. You can make new friends who love learn English. At the same time, you can communicate with other foreigners who comes different countries. It help you know more accent. Don’t be shy to speak English.= =Bella Tian= =

= ==I’m very happy to be here with you and it’s my pleasure to give you some advice. Now you live in campus and you have five roommates and many classmates, you have to learn restraint and others will never care about it if you always lose temper. Don’t be self-centered, be friendly to others and don’t care about the small things all the time, or others will dislike you. Try your best to join the class activities because it is a good way to have a nice relationship with your classmates. When you have time, call your parents, they will miss you very much.==

Lily Hao
I am glad to give you some advice about the relationship in your university life. If you are in a university which is far away from home, you should often make a call to your parents and your old friends. During the first year, you must learn how to make friends in the university. You should take part in the different activities to make more friends. In the dormitory, the most important one is help each other. If there are some problems between you and your roommates, you can talk with each other and explain clearly.

Wasabi Wang

Jason. Xu
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== ==I’m Lee.N, When U come to this university, several days later, you will have the military training, according to our experience, it is not such strict as teacher said, if u are tied, u can be absent from it. The mark will be given after the military training, although teacher told us they will not give you the mark if U R absent.==

For you, coming to TUST is a marvelous thing which is hard-working as well. Therefore, I will give you some tips for you.
=1.Be well-prepared for studying much more subjects than other majors. = =2.It is big difference that we have our unique classroom, so you should regard your classmates as brothers and sisters. = =3.Get along with your roommates well, you must realize that you should give up your original self-concerned. = = //4. //  Keeping certain distance and respecting others are the same important for your relationship. = =O'Neal MA = =

= Pain: In our life ,Maybe you have someone called “ your dislike people ”.so many people have the same feeling. So do I .I want to ask you what will you do when you have this same trouble. I will give your some advices. Maybe you do not need to notice them.Your new life is here.you will have a lot of interesting people around you, They are your fortune.Dislike people will no longer lived in your heart.Let you life have more sunshine!!!

Hi, your guys: Welcome the TUST! Firstly, I want to congratulate that you are admitted by the International College-Financial Management Major. I swear to the god that you can learn many useful and valuable skills from the foreign teachers as long as you are engaged in the class. I know that you will feel confused and helpless to deal with the relationships when coming to a strange circumstance. So, there are a variety of practical approaches for you to get through these thorny and embarrassed matters. First of all, when you are assigned to the specific room, you must realize that it is necessary to get rid of your “self-concerned” and childish habits. For the golden rules for interaction are caring about others more yourself. Only in this way can you get in harmony whit your roommates. Second, the teachers in university are different hugely from whom you experienced before. They are not obligated to supervise study. Their only compulsory is to give the lecture. As the results, the most reliable person for you is tutor. Do not be shy to ask them the basic information in the campus. Now that without supervision the self-study is significant. Do not indulge yourself in computer games and other meaningless entertainments which will let you regret on day. Last but not least, making friends who hold same ambitions and interests with you. In sum, valuing you precious time! Enjoying your new life in university. O( ∩ _ ∩ )O



When you leave your hometown, and reach to Tianjin university of Tianjin University of Science & Technology. Maybe you feel homesick, as well do not how to adapt to the new life in university. However, in my opinion， you should learn to stand on your own feet from now on. A good student who wants to get great achievement in college cannot rest on his oars.

Learning is top priority.

My counselor told me that to learn so that you will get all of you want.

Therefore, you should always go to an independent self-study, you have to endure lonely. Go to the library to learn more.

Do not fall.What is better to be proactive take part in more community activities, good at seizing opportunities.

Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about leaning to dance in the rain.

Kiven wang


 * First don’t forget your best old friends, they are your fortune, who you can only share sorrow with, while, I suggest that sharing happiness can tie your relationship. **
 * Then you can make more friends after you get into the university. The classmates, the people stand around you in the army training and members in different clubs. I think it’s interesting that I make many friends in a club who are in different colleges, so that I can know much news from them. **
 * Last important is roommates. You should understand that you are not single in the dormitory, there are 6 people in the room. You share the space on the next four years. It is a good way to solve the trouble amount you is make good friends with everybody and understand them. Maybe it’s hard to you to make friends, for the peace in the room you should learn to be patience and apologize. **
 * // [[image:b139b6a723428f81d14358c0.jpg width="252" height="156"]]Sonia Li //**

-Mary Zhang
 * Hello, I am Mary from 2010 class. Welcome to go to the university. I fell very happy to become your schoolmates. Maybe this is your first time to leave home and leave your best friend for a long time. You have to face** ** homesickness, tiredness, depression, and misunderstanding, but do not worry about it. You will meet the new people, you will have six lovely roommates and classmates, and can be friends with your foreign teacher, they are friendly and funny, you could communicate with them easily, and you need not be nervous and shy. **
 * At university, you maybe will meet a wonderful love, and have a beloved lover. Perhaps ,this people is your classmates, you can stay with him all day, he will take care of you and care about you . He mayfill thevacancyof youremotions. At university, you will have enough time to learn how to deal with homesickness and depression. So please look forward to the university life. I hope you can achieve happy and happiness **.
 * At university, you maybe will meet a wonderful love, and have a beloved lover. Perhaps ,this people is your classmates, you can stay with him all day, he will take care of you and care about you . He mayfill thevacancyof youremotions. At university, you will have enough time to learn how to deal with homesickness and depression. So please look forward to the university life. I hope you can achieve happy and happiness **.

Little tips of making good friends Maybe you will feel alone at the very beginning of this fresh year, it doesn’t mean you will be forgotten. On contrary, you can make a difference by using your ability of making friends. The life of TUST is the life of creativity by your own hands, and the friends will play an important role of your whole year in TUST. Don not conflict with your friends, even sometimes you will be annoyed by them. However they are also your friends and when you desperately need help they will give you a hand without a second hesitation. The friends in collage years is not just the guy you play data with but the person who will accompany with you when you meet some exact challenges in your subjects, alternatively you will be fallen down and failed in the exams Believe me, friends is everything! Wish you all have a great time in TUST. Besides, make more friends as you can. ---jack

Sometimes, when we are busy in many things, we would forget our old friends. We just take it as grand, but when we be calm and think, we would found that we have missed a lot. We always think we don't have too much thing to say to our friends, then we lose touch with each other. We don’t know that maybe others just need a message. I like chat with my friends on the Internet, sometimes I would call them, maybe it’s not a long talk, but really a happy talk. When I was in here, I would be excited just hearing my old friend’s words. It’s not very hard to keep in touch with our friends, we just think we are busy, and we take this excuse. A call, a message, an email, all these can bring others warm. When you make new friends, please not forget your old friends. When you are free, or when you are upset, just give others a call, or a message. They would always see that you are sincere.

John Ye One day, we would ......, so cherish your old friends.